KAVISHT

Sex dreams about your boss have to do with your own leadership qualities, not a desire to fondle your boss's Reese's Pieces. They typically mean either that you see leadership abilities developing in yourself, or that you'd like to cultivate them further. Maybe you're in the middle of getting psyched to start taking your career more seriously, or are beginning to push yourself to go after your professional goals.

A sexual fantasy or erotic fantasy is a mental image or pattern of thought that stirs a person's sexuality and can create or enhance sexual arousal. There can be different fantasy people to people but here are the most common sexual fantasies for men:
• Having His Partner Pursue Him and Take Charge
• Oral Sex, Especially if His Partner Doesn’t Typically Go ‘Down’
• Having a Threesome
• Anal Sex
• Watching women pleasure other women
• Submission: Being Tied Up, Teased, and Spanked
• Exhibitionism: Having Sex in a Public Place
• Domination: Blending Pleasure With Pain
• Role Playing: Dressing Up and Acting Out
• Sex with Experienced Women
• Sex with Virgin Women

When you're not enjoying sex, you might be wondering why, but the truth is that our sex drives are impacted by so many things. Both your physical and mental health can be the cause of a low libido. Stress, certain medications, and a feeling of shame could all be reasons you may not be enjoying sex. Some common reasons include:
• You're engaging in sexual activities before you're adequately aroused : Taking extra time for foreplay can help.
• You're not mentally or emotionally ready to have sex: Your body and mind should both feel ready.
• You're dealing with anxiety about your body or appearance: Focusing on negative thoughts about your body and self could make sex less pleasurable.
• You're uncomfortable about past sexual experiences: If you don't feel safe, it can be tough for your body to relax.
• You're not comfortable around your partner: Sex could make you feel vulnerable.
• You feel shame or stigma about your sexual needs or wants: Having a conversation with your partner about what you want and what you'd like to try might help.
• You've been given false or sex-negative messages about sex or sexuality: Not everything you were taught in sex education is necessarily accurate.
• You're on a medication that impacts your libido or physical sensations during sex: Antidepressants commonly cause a decrease in sexual desire.
• You're dealing with a medical condition that makes sex painful: You're dealing with a medical condition that makes sex painful
• You may be trying positions that make you feel uncomfortable or pained: If certain positions cause you pain, your body could be trying to tell you something.
• You're not prioritizing sleep, eating well, or exercising regularly: If you're feeling constantly hungry or moody, your body might be trying to tell you that you need more sleep.
• You're not sure what feels good for you and your body: Figuring out what you like and don't like can make sex more enjoyable.
• You're skimping on water intake: Being dehydrated can also cause you to feel dizzy or pass out.
• You've recently given birth: Postpartum is a different experience for everyone.
• You're afraid of pregnancy or sexually transmitted infections: Having your partner get tested could help ease some of your worries about STIs.
• You're stressed about other things: If you're stressed about work, you may find it hard to focus on enjoying sex.
• You're just not interested in sex, either at the moment or in the long-run: If you find yourself never really feeling sexual attraction or desire, you may identify as asexual.

Doctor and patient. Teacher and student. Role-playing is a common aspect of BDSM “play.” It may involve two or more people who “act out” a particular scene or fantasy. BDSM role play can happen in person or virtually.
Some popular character scenarios include:
• Doctor or nurse and patient
• Teacher and student
• Boss and employee
• Master and slave
• Client and stripper
• Handyman and housewife
• Photographer and model
• Homeowner and maid
• Police officer and criminal
• Adult and child
• Human and animal
Additionally, many BDSM followers perform gender play (where one or more participants takes on the role of the opposite gender) or “rape” fantasy play (where one participant pretends to be nonviolently coerced into an unwelcome sex act).

A simple answer is that Bondage, Discipline /Domination, Sadism and Masochism turns them on.
BDSM is all about power dynamics. It might give the impression that is about taking pleasure in the pain, and off course that’s part of the game, but, for most people, the underlying force that drives them to these activities is the desire to dominate or submit, to be in control or to have someone else in control of yourself.